Lying to your parents

It’s scary how a boy can lie to his mom or dad as soon as he’s old enough to do it. Mine, like many others, shamelessly tried to hide from me:

  • – his girlfriend
  • – his habits of drinking alcohol and taking narcotic drugs
  • – the meetups he’d have with “clients” to sell them drugs

(See : Lies and dangerous games of our children)

Spying with BibiSpy

I needed to resort to a program like BibiSpy to be able to record his phone calls and texts, and get a copy of his contacts, emails, and photos. Like any phone application, I installed BibiSpy on the phone he was using by downloading it from the internet. Seeing that I’d registered on the app’s official site beforehand, I had access to the secure private server on which all his monitoring info and other info were recorded.

Children Lie

Spying is not ideal

I’m not saying that spying on your son is a cure-all. It’s even illegal without the express consent of the person involved. However, I am responsible for my son as long as he’s a minor under my roof. I was afraid that he was making mistakes and I don’t regret having been able to stop him from falling into dangerous habits. Beyond that, it all comes down to specific cases and history. Each one of us has different lives, experiences, and futures which don’t necessarily line up. Consequently, it’s up to each of us to know how to adapt to the events that happen to us daily.

Avoiding the worst for your son or daughter at all costs.

In no cases do I wish for your child to:

  • – become a delinquant
  • – sink into various addictions like alcohol, narcotic drugs, or even food or video games
  • – be pulled into closed circles similar to cults, which put blinders on your child

This sort of danger exists; it would be too bad if you ignored it, even if it’s obviously easier to close your eyes than to face reality as it is.